I passed an abandoned house the other day,
As I was going rather thoughtlessly on my way.
It was vexed with age and in much disrepair.
Thoughts of home rushed in as I stopped and lingered there.
It was unusually small as homes go today,
As was the yard outside where children no doubt used to play.
The house looked sad as it stood there all alone decaying by itself,
With its vacant rooms, its flaked-off paint, and nothing left on even one kitchen shelf.
Decades ago it probably enjoyed the warmth of a family’s love,
Expressed in chatter and laughter on cold winter nights around a wood-burning stove.
Babies crying and young children giggling as parents coped with it all;
Precious sounds, these, most likely bounced from wall to wall.
The house that once was a home seems to be weeping now,
With its sagging roof, broken windows, and shutters which are still in place somehow.
I couldn’t help wondering where they all are today,
Who once lovingly called that house their home before they moved away.
The family that lived there was different in many ways from all others, of course,
But in some ways families are alike since they all come from the same Source.
It matters not what color or religion we are --- whether we’re rich or poor or somewhere in between,
That we all have a lot in common is actually quite easily seen.
Though I don’t know those who lived there so very long ago,
I’m sure there were times of happiness and much joy, but also days of grief and heart-broken sorrow.
Likely there were babies born, graduations, weddings, and, yes, funerals too.
They surely went through good times and bad times like all of us do.
There were probably measles, chicken pox, and mumps to endure,
But hot soup, Calamine lotion, and lots of love helped to speed the cure.
There were tears brought on by teenage romances, skinned knees, bumped heads, and teeth breaking through,
But they managed to survive and through it all the family’s character grew.
Like most of us, they may have missed the silver lining in the clouds which kept the sun from shining through.
They may have missed the joy of knowing the dross was being burned away and the pure gold --- they may have missed it too.
Arriving at a hectic journey’s end of raising their family through all those years,
They likely failed to see many of the good things along the way through the dust kicked up by their hard work, sweat, and tears.
If those old faded walls could talk and tell the tale of the family they once knew,
The story wouldn’t differ much at all were it told instead about my family or the one that belongs to you.
Much like our friends and neighbors, we all eat and sleep and work and play.
We’re all akin in the sense that God made each of us out of the same hunk of clay.
There’s a lot to be learned from the house I saw that was broken down and old.
Our lives are precious --- they’re worth far more than silver or diamonds or gold.
God gave his Son to purchase our souls from being eternally lost.
Never was such a price paid for anything else --- never such a cost.
That life is a brief, temporary, decaying thing we’re all supposed to know.
It’s so sad that, like that house, many of us must be old and broken down before we really believe it’s so.
I learned to treasure each moment more as I stood quietly by that house that day.
I hated to see it abandoned again, this time by me, and tears welled up as I turned and walked away.
Jesus abandoned His home in heaven to come to earth for you and me,
God Himself abandoned His Son as He hung there suffering on a tree.
An abandoned house, of course, is a sad sight to behold.
But infinitely more tragic is a soul abandoned forever in a place of awful suffering and agony untold.
So let us give ourselves to Jesus Who gave Himself for me and you.
He abandoned His home in Heaven to do what His Father asked Him to.
Though, David, the psalmist was amazed, that to think of us who are sinners God would even bother ---
Far more, He gave His Son that we might live with Him forever and forever call Him Father.
As strange as it may sound, no human has really seen another human being.
For God made each of us a spirit, like Himself; it’s only the houses in which we live that we’ve been seeing.
And somewhat like the family of the house I saw along the way,
Our spirits have but a few short years in these houses in which we live to stay.
One day these houses of flesh and blood in which we walk about,
Will also be abandoned, left alone and lifeless when we move out.
They too, like that lonely, empty house, will suffer from decay,
And sadly turn to dust again after we have moved away.
Wars and murders, disease, death, and suffering forever in Hell ---
Atrocities untold, could all have never happened --- all could have been well.
But Lucifer committed high treason against God --- the worst sin ever known,
When he sought to take God’s place and sit upon His throne.
Hosts of angels followed his evil leading and with him also fell,
Until then there were no wicked beings; there was no place called Hell.
God in His holy righteousness cast them all away,
And condemned them to eternal suffering; it had to be that way.
Satan in his anger then attacked the creature God loved most.
He sought to win the heart of man away from the God of hosts.
He succeeded in his evil quest; the heart of man to win,
He persuaded him to be like him and, like him, the man committed sin.
However, God in His great love from eternity past had a plan,
To thwart the goal of Satan and win back the heart of man.
And though the price was higher than any ever paid,
He gave His Son to die and the sacrifice was made.
Now each man can choose to whom he’ll give his love,
To Satan here below or to God up above.
Satan doesn’t care for you or me; it’s God he wants to grieve.
He delights in each man suffering forever in Hell without reprieve.
So if you’re in possession of your right mind today,
Give your heart and love to God; don’t gamble and delay.
Now is all you have for certain to make the gravest choice of all.
You may not have another breath to breathe, no more time on God to call.
Just tell Him that you’re sincerely sorry for the sins that you have done,
And ask Him for forgiveness through the death of His dear Son.
Depend only on the price that Jesus paid ---
It was on Him alone that your sins and mine were laid.
Give Him back the authority that Adam took away,
To be the One Who guides you through each and every day.
He’ll miraculously transform you into a child of His own,
And you’ll spend forever with Him in a never-to-be-abandoned home.
© Copyright 2006 – Thomas Fortenberry